I went to an ex’s funeral…and here’s how it went

Let me be clear. Notice I didn't say "My" ex's funeral? The funeral I went to was for my BOYFRIEND's ex-girlfriend. I know, I know. This is a very awkward statement, let alone being at the actual funeral. But- all funerals are awkward, aren't they? You never really know how to act. You get to … Continue reading I went to an ex’s funeral…and here’s how it went

Ghosting a Loved One

What is "Ghosting"? My personal uncensored definition of "Ghosting" is leaving someone in the dark, or, never speaking to someone again, without a verbal reason why. Sounds fucked up, doesn't it? It is, and to be honest, I hate being ghosted. In some cases, it can be heartbreaking. Regretfully, I've ghosted three people on the … Continue reading Ghosting a Loved One

How Does A Man Love His Woman?

It makes you wonder, doesn't it? I mean, let's be honest. If you're a heterosexual woman, don't you sometimes wonder how a man would treat a woman he truly loves? I guess you never really know until you realize what you have, while you have it. My relationship is almost perfect. I say almost, because … Continue reading How Does A Man Love His Woman?

It’s over, so get over it.

How painful it is to reminisce on old times and memories, full of laughter and life, secrets and fun. To have cherished something so special, for a single moment, only to realize it's over...so I really need to get over it. This isn't about a lover; it's about friends. I miss them with my whole … Continue reading It’s over, so get over it.

Just let it go

Is it just me, or do you ever notice some of your night worries tend to fade away in the morning? For me, the thoughts I encounter at night time are usually ransom, and are usually negative. They also usually escape my head by morning. I call these thoughts intruders. These are the thoughts that … Continue reading Just let it go

Mental Health: The good in bad implicit memories

I started seeing a therapist in November of 2019. Fortunately, I found a really good therapist. One that I instantly connected with. Earlier in 2019, I was seeing another therapist--who was a woman, but I didn't gain anything from her at all. Granted, I only saw her twice, but I just didn't obtain anything from … Continue reading Mental Health: The good in bad implicit memories

Love doesn’t Quit; You do.

Today is a rainy day; no sun in sight. I'm at work, thinking about my life's greatest qualities... A stable job, plenty of money. A nice house, plenty of space. A reliable partner, full of love. Pets, loyal and happy. Family, loving and constant. Sadly one quality shatters, almost all of the others are affected. … Continue reading Love doesn’t Quit; You do.

The Yellow Room

The yellow room.   I've been aching to write something meaningful lately. I think of probably a thousand different topics on a monthly basis- but I’ve never actually had that "YES" moment...until this morning.   Last night I had a very strange dream. in fact, I have been dreaming vivid dreams lately. I think this … Continue reading The Yellow Room

Rushing into something

Ever feel like you are rushing into something? Rushing to get home, rushing to get out the door, rushing to turn the page into a new chapter in your book called life? The other day I realized that rushing into something only makes time go by faster. It doesn't always mean happiness, neither. Let me … Continue reading Rushing into something

Self-awareness through Meditation

For the past week, I've been listening to guided meditation videos right before bed. The videos are usually about two hours long of non-stop relaxing music, sounds, and vocals. You can find all kinds of meditation videos on YouTube. Is it relaxing? Very. I am falling asleep much quicker, and I noticed I am not … Continue reading Self-awareness through Meditation